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Choosing Joy Again: An Intentional Return to Sewing

Small steps, soft plans, and finding my way back to what matters

Lately, I’ve been sitting with a big question: How do I get my joy of sewing back?

Not the productivity.
Not the perfectly planned projects.
Not the pressure to finish what I said I would.

The joy.

This year, my word is Intentional. I’m realizing that getting my joy back doesn’t require a dramatic reset. It requires intentionality. Small, thoughtful choices made with care instead of urgency.

Intentional Baby Steps (Instead of Big Resolutions)

Right now, my next steps aren’t bold or flashy. They’re intentional.

They look like:

  • Sitting at my sewing space without the obligation to produce
  • Touching fabric without deciding its destiny
  • Sewing for 15 minutes and stopping when it feels right
  • Choosing curiosity over guilt

Being intentional means honoring where I am today, not where I think I should be. Joy returns when sewing feels safe again—when it’s allowed to be slow, imperfect, and just for me.

The Finish It and Toss It Series—An Intentional Revisit

I’ve been asking myself a big question. Should I continue the Finish It and Toss It series? This involves the planned work through my unfinished sewing projects, also known as WIPs and UFOs.

Here’s what intentionality is teaching me: The idea still has value. But, the way I engage with it needs to change.

Instead of finishing everything out of obligation, I’m choosing to intentionally revisit each project.

Some will be finished with care.
Some will be altered with fresh eyes.
Some will be released—intentionally and without guilt.

Completion is no longer the goal. Alignment is.

Do I Scrap All My Plans or Start Fresh?

An intentional approach doesn’t mean throwing everything away.

Those plans were created thoughtfully, but by a version of me with different energy and expectations. Rather than scrapping them entirely, I’m choosing to review them intentionally:

  • Keeping what still feels supportive
  • Adjusting what feels restrictive
  • Letting go of what no longer serves me

Starting fresh doesn’t always mean starting from zero. Sometimes it means editing with intention.

What Do I Tell the People Following Along?

Intentional communication matters too.

What I want to share—clearly and honestly—is this:

  • I’m reconnecting with sewing for joy, not constant output
  • Plans shift as I move more intentionally
  • Unfinished does not mean unsuccessful
  • This season is about sustainability, not speed

I don’t owe perfection. What I do owe is honesty—both to myself and to the people who have chosen to follow along.

Moving Ahead—Intentionally

This next chapter isn’t about doing more.
It’s about doing what matters.

I’m choosing to move ahead intentionally—allowing space for rest, creativity, and change. Whether joy returns quickly or slowly, I’m committed to listening, adjusting, and honoring the process.

This isn’t the end of sewing for me.

It’s an intentional, gentler beginning.

Please read the earlier post When You Lose the Will to Do What You Love here

Embracing Change: Turning 50 and New Adventures

April was truly a month to be etched in my memory forever! Celebrating my milestone 50th birthday, attending the exhilarating Spring Fling #2 Sewrority Wear Retreat, and embarking on my very first solo adventure—all of these experiences came together to create a whirlwind of love, creativity, and connection, filling my heart to the brim with pure, unadulterated JOY!!!

Turning 50 in Style

This year, I joyfully celebrated my 50th birthday with an overflowing sense of gratitude, profound reflection, and a dazzling touch of sparkle! I wholeheartedly embraced the journey, the invaluable lessons, and the incredible growth that have profoundly shaped me into the vibrant person I am today. There were triumphant laughs, some heartfelt tears, and above all—an enormous appreciation for my past and an exhilarating anticipation for the future. Here’s to passionately stepping into this new chapter with open arms and an exuberant heart!

Sewrority Wear Retreat: Spring Fling Highlights

Shortly after the birthday festivities, I shoved my bags (and a mountain of cut out patterns) into the car and headed off to the airport for the Sewrority Wear Spring Fling #2 Retreat. It was a week/weekend overflowing with more fun and laughter that I could have ever imagined.

  • Late-night sewing sessions fueled by snacks and soul talk
  • Runway moments showcasing our handmade creations – the pajama night was a hit
  • New friendships formed over sewing projects and laughter
  • Learning, growing, and being inspired by so many talented women

It was more than a retreat—it was a celebration of sisterhood, style, and the magic we make when we come together.

Looking Ahead

April reminded me that life is richer when we show up fully—whether it’s celebrating personal milestones or sharing our passion with others. I’m walking into May inspired, energized, and so ready to keep stitching this beautiful life.

Sew Lucky Jar Challenge 2025: Know Me 2100 Misses’ Bomber Jacket – Pattern #3

Are you looking for a stylish addition to your wardrobe? Do you want something cozy and versatile? Look no further than Sew Lucky Jar Pattern #3: Misses’ Bomber Jacket. This pattern combines the classic bomber silhouette with the warmth and texture of quilted fabric. It makes the jacket the perfect transitional piece for cooler months. Whether you’re a sewing enthusiast or a seasoned pro, this bomber jacket offers a fun project. It is also rewarding and will elevate your fashion game. Let’s explore how to make this jacket using quilted fabric for both the lining and the fashion fabric!

Why Choose Quilted Fabric for Your Bomber Jacket?

Quilted fabric is not only stylish but also practical. It provides extra warmth. This makes it a great choice for a bomber jacket. It will keep you snug during chilly days. The quilted texture adds depth and interest to your jacket, giving it a unique and fashionable look. Plus, it’s relatively easy to work with. Many quilted fabrics come in a variety of patterns, colors, and weights. This lets you personalize your jacket to fit your style perfectly.

In this pattern, I used quilted fabric for both the fashion fabric (the outer layer) and the lining. The lining was a remnant that I found at Joann Fabric. This creates a cohesive look. It ensures that the jacket is just as comfortable on the inside as it is stylish on the outside.

Tips for Sewing with Quilted Fabric

Sewing with quilted fabric can be different due to the thickness. It also has a unique texture compared to regular woven fabrics. Here are some helpful tips to guarantee a smooth sewing process:

  1. Use the Right Needle
  2. Take Your Time
  3. Use a Walking Foot
  4. Pre-Wash Your Fabric
  5. Press Seams Carefully

Style Tips for Your New Bomber Jacket

The beauty of this bomber jacket is that it’s incredibly versatile. Here are some styling ideas to get you inspired:

  • Add a scarf or a beanie for an extra cozy touch during the colder months.
  • Pair your bomber jacket with high-waisted jeans or leggings for a chic, everyday look.
  • For a sportier vibe, throw it over a hoodie or graphic tee and finish the look with sneakers.

Conclusion

Sew Lucky Jar Pattern #3 Misses’ Bomber Jacket is a great project. Use quilted fabric for both the fashion fabric and lining. This method is a fantastic way to create a warm jacket. It will be stylish and functional. This piece will become a wardrobe staple. The quilted texture not only adds visual interest. It also provides comfort and warmth. This makes the bomber jacket perfect for layering in cooler seasons. With a little patience and some helpful tips, you’ll have a custom-made bomber jacket that’s as unique as you are.

Happy sewing, and enjoy the process of crafting your new favorite jacket!

Sew Lucky Jar Challenge 2025: Know Me 2052 Misses’ Blouse – Pattern #2

If you’re looking for an effortlessly chic, oversize button-down blouse, Know Me 2052, Misses’ Blouse is a fantastic choice. It was designed by Nikki Brooks of Beauté Jadore. This pattern combines relaxed sophistication with a modern silhouette, making it a staple for any wardrobe.

This design offers a comfortable, loose fit. It features stylish details like a classic collar, button placket, and slightly dropped shoulders. The oversize structure allows for easy movement, making it perfect for casual wear or layering. Whether you’re an advanced beginner or an experienced sewist, this pattern provides a satisfying project with professional-looking results. I choose to layer it with a sleeveless vest and leggings. It looks great without the vest as well.

Fabric Choice: White Cotton

For this version, I chose a crisp white cotton, which enhances the blouse’s classic appeal. Cotton is an excellent choice for this pattern because:

  • It’s breathable and comfortable for all seasons.
  • It holds structure well, showcasing the blouse oversize design.
  • It’s easy to sew and presses beautifully for sharp, clean lines.

Styling Your Finished Blouse

A crisp white button-down is a versatile wardrobe staple! Here are some styling ideas:

  • Pair it with jeans and sneakers for a casual, everyday look.
  • Tuck it into high-waisted trousers for a sophisticated, office-ready outfit.
  • Layer it over a tank top and leggings for an effortless, on-the-go ensemble.

Final Thoughts

The Know Me 2052 Misses’ Blouse is an excellent project for sewists looking to create a stylish and timeless piece. With its oversize silhouette and classic design, it’s a must-have addition to any handmade wardrobe. If you love sewing wardrobe essentials that balance comfort and style, this pattern is a great addition to your collection!

Stay tuned for pattern #3 of the #SewLuckyJarChallenge, Know Me 2100, Misses’ Bomber Jacket.

Sew Lucky Jar Challenge 2025: McCall’s 8347 Poncho – Pattern #1

The start of a new year signifies a fresh beginning for my sewing projects. What better way to dive in than with the 2025 Sew Lucky Jar Challenge? This is an idea that was created by another sew sister, 26bydayana over on Instagram. It’s a great idea and I love it. For pattern #1, I’m featuring McCall’s 8347 Misses’ Poncho—a versatile and stylish project that’s perfect for sewists of all levels.

Why Choose McCall’s 8347?

McCall’s 8347 is a fantastic choice for the first project of the year. It’s simple and cozy. It also allows for plenty of creativity. This poncho pattern offers 3 design options, making it ideal for layering throughout the seasons. I choose View B, without the pocket, to give it a more professional look, personal choice. If you’re working with fleece, wool, or even a lightweight knit, you can adapt it to match your personal style.

McCall's Pattern 8347 on black and white fabric

What You’ll Need:

  • McCall’s 8347 Sewing Pattern
  • Fabric of your choice (recommended: fleece, wool, or medium-weight knits)
  • Matching thread
  • Scissors or rotary cutter
  • Pins or clips
  • Sewing machine with appropriate needle for your fabric

Tips for a Successful Sew:

  • Choose the right fabric: A structured fabric like wool will give your poncho a polished look. Fleece will create a soft, casual style.
  • Pre-wash your fabric: This step prevents unwanted shrinkage after your poncho is finished.
  • Take your time with finishing: Ponchos have exposed edges. Consider using bias binding, serging, or a double-fold hem for a professional touch.

Show Off Your Creation!

Here are a few photos of my finished Poncho. Let me know what you think in the comments below. Let’s inspire and motivate each other throughout this challenge!

Front View of McCall's 8347
Front – Poncho M8437
Back – Poncho M8437

Stay tuned for pattern #2, KnowMe 2052, Misses’ Shirt, and happy sewing!

KnowMe 2052 Misses' Shirt